“You should be grateful you have two healthy kids”
“Imagine what X is going through who is sick”
“Just come out with me and have a few drinks”
“Look at X who has no help and is far from family and how well she is doing”
“X has 4 kids and works full-time. If anyone should be complaining it should be her”
“Just truck through it”
“Just shake it off”
“It’ll pass. We all had it”
“When I gave birth I looked perfect the same day. I’d shower and put on makeup and would welcome all my friends”
Very unhelpful comments from other people, and people ween t really listening to you.
Exactly! It felt like talking to a wall. And made me feel even more guilty to be feeling what I was feeling.
Good grief. Comments not helpful to you at sll
These are reactionary comments, not mindful ones, unfortunately 😦 sorry you had to deal with those comments. The only thing they can do is add unmerited guilt.
Obrigada por compartilhar conosco sua jornada=)
De nada! É um processo. Me conta se quiser saber de algo específico para eu contar.
Just to name a few!! there are so many more!!
Yes, please share a few you heard too